The Struggles
Trying to survive as a new mom and an exhausted doctor working in NICU. We really wanted to take advantage of our very limited sleep, knowing that our babies are safe. As a doctor, I wanted to swaddle a baby quickly and safely to save me time on a busy night on call, without having to call a nurse and waste further time. We wanted a convenient swaddle that could alleviate extra stress off of moms and paediatricians & that was safe and comfortable for the baby.
The problem was that I was using blankets to swaddle and that is surprisingly a very hard skill to master, especially when you are so exhausted and overwhelmed. This also meant that I wasn’t able to swaddle my baby safely and easily, resulting in more anxiety and poor mental health. To make things worse, we felt terrible because one would think that surely swaddling is a simple thing to do? Because society makes it look like it’s such a simple task, when in fact hundreds of thousands of moms find it difficult and stressful everyday. Seeing these moms effortless ace motherhood makes you question your own self belief and worth.
The problem was that night time had become our biggest enemy where we would sit the whole day not being able to be present with our children because the anxiety of not knowing how to swaddle and how we would safely get through the night became all encompassing. Then, as if by chance, something amazing happened...
That's when after an accumulation of sleepless, stressful nights we both had experienced the potential dangers of not swaddling correctly. I had woken up to my baby kicking her legs up to get the blanket away from her face. Thank GD she was okay and safe but it was the most terrifying moment in my life. Steff also experienced something similar in the NICU rooms where she went to put a drip in for a baby and found that the blanket was over the babies face.
It was now crystal clear to us that babies needed a safe, comfortable, convenient and reliable swaddle because traditional swaddles and swaddling was no longer an option.